I joined a kickboxing gym (one of the best decisions I've made in years), said yes to every single social invite I was given, even if I didn't feel like it, reached out to other divorced friends to just talk, I take long bike rides to the beach once a week just to be outside, and go to therapy once a week.

If you run across some areas where you disagree, this is what you need to focus on now versus waiting until later when it becomes a source of tension and resentment. You may even want to consult a trusted 3rd party to mediate while you both still care enough to fight for what you have.

Being exclusive with your partner should be want you each want to do on your own, because it's important to you. If you feel like you've been compelled into it, then you're not ready to be partnered. You're still seeking.